Proverbs 3:31

English NIV

Proverbs 3:31 — English NIV

Do not envy a violent man or choose any of his ways,

What Does This Mean?

This verse says, do not envy or follow the ways of those who oppress others. It comes from the Book of Proverbs, which gives wisdom and advice for living a good life. The key message is to avoid the negative behaviors of oppressors and choose better paths.

Explained for Children

Imagine you see a kid at school who bullies others and gets what they want by being mean. This verse is like a grown-up telling you not to wish you could be like that mean kid, and instead to choose to be kind and fair.

Historical Background

The Book of Proverbs was written by King Solomon, a wise king of Israel, around 950 BC. It was intended to guide people, especially young men, on how to live wisely and righteously in their society.

Living It Out Today

In today's world, you might see a coworker who gets ahead by taking credit for others' work. This verse reminds you not to envy or mimic their unfair methods, but to work honestly and build your reputation through integrity.

Topics

• wisdom
• envy
• oppression
• righteous living
• morality
• integrity

Related Verses

• Proverbs 24:1
• Job 31:29
• Romans 13:13
• 1 Corinthians 13:4
• Ephesians 4:31

Recommended Reading

Wisdom Books on wisdom → Envy Books on envy → Commentary Proverbs Commentaries → Get This Bible NIV Study Bible →

Frequently Asked Questions

Why does the verse specifically mention 'oppressors'?

The verse specifically mentions oppressors because they represent those who use unfair means to gain advantage, and the advice is to avoid both their envy and the methods they use to succeed.

Can this verse be applied to personal relationships?

Yes, this verse can definitely be applied to personal relationships by avoiding envy of those who might hurt others to get what they want and choosing to maintain integrity in your own relationships.

How does this verse relate to modern society?

In modern society, this verse encourages us to avoid following unethical or oppressive leaders or influencers and to choose paths that reflect honesty and fairness, even if they seem less advantageous at first.

What are some ways to avoid envy in everyday life?

To avoid envy, focus on being grateful for what you have, setting personal goals based on your own values, and surrounding yourself with positive influences that support your growth and integrity.