2 Samuel 13:4

English (YLT) 1898 Young's Literal Translation by Robert Young

2 Samuel 13:4 — English (YLT) 1898 Young's Literal Translation by Robert Young

and saith to him, `Wherefore [art] thou thus lean, O king`s son, morning by morning? dost thou not declare to me?` And Amnon saith to him, `Tamar -- sister of Absalom my brother -- I am loving.`

What Does This Mean?

In this verse, Jonadab is asking Amnon why he looks sad and unwell every day, to which Amnon admits his love for Tamar, his half-sister. The verse highlights the intensity of Amnon's feelings and Jonadab's concern.

Explained for Children

Imagine your best friend looks sad every day. You might ask them why and they tell you it's because they like someone they can't be with. That's what's happening here, but with grown-ups.

Historical Background

2 Samuel was written by Samuel, Nathan, and Gad, chronicling the reign of King David and his sons. This verse is part of the story about David's son Amnon and his feelings for Tamar. It was written in the early monarchy period of ancient Israel.

Living It Out Today

This verse can remind us that our feelings, especially unrequited love, can affect our health and well-being. It's important to find healthy ways to manage emotions and seek support from trusted friends.

Topics

• love
• family
• emotions
• relationships
• health
• advice

Related Verses

• Genesis 38:6
• Ruth 3:9
• Song of Solomon 1:7
• Matthew 5:28
• 1 Corinthians 6:18

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the main issue in 2 Samuel 13:4?

The main issue is Amnon's unrequited love for Tamar, which is causing him to be in poor health and spirits.

Why is Jonadab concerned about Amnon?

Jonadab is concerned because he notices that Amnon is looking unhealthy and wants to help, showing the importance of caring for friends.

How might Amnon's feelings be viewed in the context of the ancient Israelite culture?

In ancient Israel, relationships between siblings and half-siblings were strictly regulated by law, making Amnon's feelings both complex and taboo.

What can we learn about friendship from Jonadab?

Jonadab's concern shows that true friends look out for each other and try to understand the reasons behind their friend's behavior.