Ada beberapa nasihat tambahan dari saya. Ini bukan perintah langsung dari Tuhan. Kalau seorang laki-laki Kristen mempunyai istri yang bukan Kristen, dan istrinya mau hidup bersama dengan dia, ia tidak boleh meninggalkan istrinya itu. Istri yang belum percaya kepada Kristus itu, bisa menjadi anggota umat Allah karena suaminya yang sudah menjadi milik Allah itu. Begitu juga kalau seorang perempuan Kristen mempunyai suami yang bukan Kristen. Jika suaminya mau hidup bersama dengan dia, ia tidak boleh meninggalkan suaminya itu. Suami yang belum percaya kepada Kristus itu bisa menjadi anggota umat Allah karena istrinya yang sudah menjadi milik Allah itu. Kalau tidak begitu, anak-anak mereka tidak akan diterima Allah, padahal mereka anggota umat Allah.
Apa artinya?
This verse talks about what to do if a believer is married to someone who doesn't believe in God, but they are still happy together. Paul is speaking here, not quoting Jesus directly, and he says that the believer should stay with their spouse.
Penjelasan untuk anak-anak
Imagine you have a best friend who likes different games than you. If your friend wants to play together, it's good to keep playing together even if they don't like all of your games.
Latar belakang sejarah
The letter was written by Paul around 53-54 AD to the Christians in Corinth, addressing various issues including marriage and relationships within a community that mixed pagan beliefs with Christian faith.
Penerapan hari ini
If you are married to someone who isn't a believer but wants to stay together, this verse suggests staying committed to each other. It can apply to modern situations where spouses have different religious backgrounds or beliefs.
Topik
marriagefaithfulnessbelievers and non-believersdivorcerelationshipscommitment
No, the principles here can be applied by both men and women. The gender-specific language reflects the historical context but doesn't limit its application.
What if the unbelieving spouse is unhappy with the relationship?
If the unbelieving partner wants to leave, then it's different; you don't have to force a situation where both aren't happy. The verse specifically talks about when both are willing to stay together.
How can staying in such a marriage be beneficial?
Staying together might provide opportunities for the non-believer to see the Christian life modeled, potentially leading them to faith over time.
What if my spouse's lack of belief affects our children?
It can be challenging. Focus on raising your children in a way that exposes them to God's love and teachings while being understanding towards the non-believing parent’s perspective.